What Can You Talk About With Boyfriend?

Creative Art

Most guys have a creative side whether it's painting, sketching or just having an appreciation for creative works. Talking about art can lead to some interesting conversation. Take a trip together to your local art museum or plan a day where you two can let your creative juices flow. There are plenty of creative do it yourself projects you can do together which can also lead to more in-depth talks.

Favorite Films

Do you know what his favorite film or genre is? Are there any new movies coming out you might like to see? You can start a conversation by simply talking about a film you want to see or one you haven't seen in a while. This is the kind of conversation that can go on for hours and you will never even realize, and you can also learn a lot about each other. 

Good Food

While you're having dinner, why not talk about some foods you've been wanting to try? Talking about your favorite meals can lead to talking about some new restaurants you want to try or even places you'd like to travel to, to get a taste of the local cousin.

Passions

Aside from the work, they do to pay the bills for some of his other hobbies, right? There is bound to be something he enjoys doing outside of work and sometimes this can be a common interest. When it comes to things to talk about with your boyfriend, why not take advantage of starting a conversation that will help you get to know him better.

Current Events

There is always something happen in the world and this can be a great way to have a conversation with your boyfriend. Whether you read something in the newspaper or saw something that caught your eye on the local news, bring it up to him and get his opinion on the topic. You can also go the political route but this can sometimes lead to arguments, so keep an open mind and remember that sometimes you just have to agree to disagree.

Family

You don't want to just get to know him; you want to get to know what his family and friends are like as well. Ask him how his parents, siblings, and friends are doing. This is an easy way to get him to open up more about his inner circle and make you feel like a part of it all.

Future Goals

Your man is probably ambitious and it's a very attractive quality. You want to be supportive of the things he is planning for in the future, but you need to know it before doing that. So ask him about that. Does he have a side project he's been meaning to get started? Why not try to brainstorm how he can make time to accomplish the goals that he has set?

Health and Wellness

Has he been feeling under the weather? Have you been wanting to start exercising more? Why not sit down and talk about how you two can incorporate living a healthier lifestyle? This can bring you closer and make you realize that you want to take better care of yourself so that you can better be there for each other in the future.

Likes and Dislikes

While the things you like and dislike will tend to change over time, getting to know what each other's preferences are is a great way to get to know each other better. Whether it's about favorite color, season or holiday, ask questions about what he likes and dislikes and you can have a long and meaningful conversation that can make you feel more connected.

Past Experiences

Talking about your past with your boyfriend can help you both understand each other better. Talking about your childhood together can help you both explain yourselves better and allows you both to be open and honest with one another.

Problem Solving

It's a part of his nature to want to solve any problems that come about, so asking for his advice or how to solve a problem you may be having can be one of the best things to talk about with your boyfriend. He'll appreciate that fact that you asked him to help you out and you never know what new things you might learn from his advice.

Talk About the Day

So often we forget how simply asking how his day went can lead to a variety of other topics. Not only will this give you something to talk about, but you'll also get to know him better by hearing about what his day is like when he's not with you.

Sports

Whether you’re into sports or not, chances are he is. Ask him about his favorite teams and question about the game that will help you better understand how it's played if you're unsure. He'll love the fact that you are taking an interest in something he really enjoys and might even turn you into a sportsman yourself.

Books

Is he a reader? One thing you both can do as a couple is to read the same book together. Then set aside some time each week to talk how you are liking it. Some recommended books to get into the habit of reading are personal development books that will help you both grow as individuals and partners.

Favorite Music

Find out what music motivates him, inspires him or just helps him relax after a long day. You can begin talking about music for a conversation that can be endless. Attend a concert together also and talk about what song you think they performed the best. There will be a lot of fun.

Places to Visit

Do you dream of visit exotic places? Taking a vacation to Europe or driving cross country? Talk about some places you'd love to visit together. You can even start planning for a vacation in the near future together or just a weekend getaway.

Values and Beliefs

You want to make sure you both are compatible with each other in a number of areas, so some of the things to talk about with your boyfriend are the personal beliefs and life values. You'll want to find these out early on in the relationship before you invest too much time and feelings into it.

His Interests

Comic books, video games, cars? These are all topics that tend to interest guys and while they may not be a top interest for you, it's good to know what he likes to do to pass his time. This is a great way to open the lines of communication.

Your Relationship

Ever once in a while you want to talk about your relationship. This can often be met with resistance from him, but in order for your relationship to move to the next phase or stage, you need to have an open and honest conversation about where you see the relationship going. You also want to talk about things that may not be working in the relationship and come up with ways to resolve the issues together.

Sex

If you want to have a better sex life or just want to keep the passion alive, then you'll want to have an open conversation about your sex life. Talk about the things you like, dislike or are interested in trying. This conversation may lead elsewhere but it is definitely one worth having.

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