When we think of a sexy man, the first few things that will pop up in most of the women's minds are ripped abs, slightly tan, a broad shouldered tall man with a dreamy smile. Well, I suppose only Photoshop can do that and the looks are not the only determinants of a man's attractiveness. When looked further into what makes a man sexy and desirable for women, the features exceed just the looks and ripped abs. They go on to personality and behaviors, like mentioned in this list below.
Being Strong
Men must have a manly strength that shows in their posture. It is a kind of confident posture that shows that he is a strong man inside out, who knows who he is, and who means what he says. By being strong, it means that a man does not lack the decisiveness and firmness of his personality, and is not lost, but independently himself, which makes women crave more to be in his arms.
Being Vulnerable
While it is important for a man to be strong in terms of personality, it is also important that he does not hide his weaknesses. Every person has some weaknesses, and to say that he cannot have one is a lie. A strong but vulnerable man is he who is not afraid to tell you about his feelings, and who shows that he too has feelings and emotions. The notion that men cannot cry is absurd, and a sexy man must open up emotionally with you to make him closer to you.
Having Integrity
There is nothing sexy about a man who lies or pretends. A man who is honest and has feelings has the qualities of a desirable man. Having integrity goes hand in hand with the other two qualities mentioned above: Being strong and vulnerable. The idea that a bad boy can have the attention of most women is true, because for some reason women seem to like poison at first, but then, when the attraction phase ends, they really value an honest man.
Being Intellectual
What makes a man sexy the most is his mind. Women are very much acquainted and attracted to words, art, creativity, and intelligence. A man, however handsome he is, can not keep a woman hooked on him if he does not show a nice amount of intellect. Now, this does not mean you boast about being super smart, but just being smart is good enough. This is something that stays even when looks don't.
Being Humorous
Who would not be attracted to a guy who laughs and makes others laugh, too? Everyone adores a funny, light-hearted man. These men make time easier, and humor actually portrays intellect, too. They say that if you can make a woman laugh, you can make her do anything, and I agree with that. Women love to laugh, they love being happy, and they fall in love because they dream of being happy with you. Adding humor would enhance your overall personality.
Being Affectionate
When a man has a warm personality, it naturally makes him more likable. Instead of being shallow, distant, or cold, when his actions speak of warmth, kindness, and affection, it shows that his feelings are also like that. By this, we mean that he would cuddle with you in bed, plant random kisses on your cheeks, hold your hand for no reason, and basically keep you close without always wanting it to elevate into sex.
Being a Partner
Women want men who will be partners for us, not our owners. In this modern time when women have learned to respect themselves, they demand respect and equal rights as men. Similarly, in relationships, women are more attracted to men who consider women equal partners rather than dominating them to feel superior. A man who admits that the relationship is ran by two people, and not just by his orders, is a man of heart, who deserves respect, and has a natural charm.
Being Confident in Bed
Being confident in bed has nothing to do with the size of your package, your physique, or your skills. These things are only a bonus, but what makes a man sexy for a woman is when he understands her body and his own body at the same time. The ability to synchronize his feelings with the situation makes him seem confident when he is open to experiments and is generous in bed, by not only taking pleasure, but also knowing how to give pleasure.
Pay Attention to Details to Make You Sexier
Not raise your voice against anyone in public, and treat people kindly. Being kind is the new sexy.
Not brag about the things you own, no matter how rich you are, because that sends women flying away from you.
Even when you drink or smoke, you should not overdo it. You don't want to puke in front of her, so keep your limits.
If you admit that a woman's appearance is not all that matters about her, you automatically gain points for being a thoughtful gentleman.
Make effort to show people you value them. Simple little surprises can make anyone feel loved!
Look clean. Dress nicely, free of torn or patched cloths, and wear deodorant to combat bad body odor.
Not always cancel plans last minute, but when you must, you do it by a phone call - which is a way more considerate than a text.
Not be afraid of the word "commitment". People run away from this word, and if you do it, too, then you're no different.
Complement a woman who you're with regularly. Women make effort to look good for you, you know?
Take care of your health, diet, and fitness. If a man makes efforts to look fit, most often does look fit.
Not initiate or worsen fights, but be mature enough to either talk things out or walk away from it.
Dance equally good whether a slow romantic song is playing, or whether it's a fun night in a club.
You MUST NOT ignore the text messages. Someone who ignores texts or delays replying shows that they are not interested.
Be open to differing opinions, and not pounce on someone with a different religion. You respect differences.
You may be a little jealous, or rightly jealous, but being overly jealous is a big turn off.
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