Virgo men can be the perfect match, but reading his emotions can be a bit tricky. He may appear to be shy and more reserved than most other males which can often come off as being arrogant or cold. Virgo men are practical creatures and tend to show their love instead of expressing his feelings with words. So how can you decipher the signs of a Virgo man in love? Read on to find out.

What Are the Signs That a Virgo Man Lovers You?

Virgos are Earth signs so these individuals are more grounded and stable. They tend to be more intellectually than others, but still have a sense of humor. Virgos also tend to be perfectionists and take every detail into consideration to find any flaws that need to be corrected. Virgo men, therefore, also have higher standards for themselves. They take their time with making decisions and pursuing things that they want, even in relationships. Virgos will not rush a relationship because he knows what he wants and expects the person he dates to meet his standards.

While he wants someone who he can rely on, there are signs he will give you that will reveal what he truly feels. Some of the signs he is falling in love with you can include:

  • He calls you often just to hear your voice.

  • He will always have a reason to want to see you.

  • He will not play games with you like other men tend to do.

  • He will not say anything he does not mean.

  • He is very affectionate.

  • He shares details about himself with you and becomes more open with you.

What Do You Need to Know Before Getting Into a Relationship with a Virgo Man?

While he has plenty of great qualities, getting into a relationship with a Virgo does have its difficulties. You'll want to understand just why they act the way they do and how you can make this relationship work well.

They can be more sensitive.

Virgo men tend to hold back their emotions, especially if there is something bothering them. They know they can be overly sensitive so they try not to make a big deal out of the things they upset, which, unfortunately, results in some major outbursts. A Virgo man in love will need you to provide them with a safe environment so they can express their feelings. While they may lash out, it is just because they want to feel as if they are being heard. Once they get out what is bothering them, they will relax more.


They don't like games.

If they are really into you, they won't play games with you and they expect the same treatment in return. They don't like trying to play guessing games or feel unsure about how you feel about them. It is best to simply say what you mean and actually mean what you say. Trying to play games with them will only frustrate them and lead them to lose interest in you as they view this type of behavior as a waste of time.


They tend to be meticulous.

Cleanliness and organization are incredibly important to the Virgo male. These guys can be a little OCD (obsessive-compulsive disorder) when it comes to their daily lives and especially in their homes. They can't function in chaos and need things to be kept neat and orderly. This is something you will need to keep in mind if you are talking about taking the next step and cohabitation with each other. If you aren't the most organized person, this is something you are going to have to work on improving if you want to have a less stressful relationship.


They put other people's needs before their own.

Virgos are caring creatures and will often do more for others than they would even consider doing for themselves. They have a great desire to feel needed by those around them, so a Virgo man in love will need to be pampered. You will want to put the effort into giving back to them and letting them take the time to do something just for themselves because they are not going to do this willingly on their own.


Be honest and genuine.

It will be hard to be deceptive towards a Virgo. They can easily tell when someone is being dishonest with them or fake. They value honesty a great deal even if it means they will get hurt. Virgos can be very intuitive with how others feel, which is why it is difficult to ever keep something from them. This intuition, however, means they will often open up the conversation when there are difficult matters to discuss.


Don't take them for granted.

While Virgos will give a lot to others, they will quickly dismiss you if they feel they are being taken for granted. They are incredibly loyal individuals who will often put more than a 100 percent of themselves into a relationship, so you need to show them that they are getting back the same affection and effort they are giving. Whether you are a friend or a lover, if they feel they are putting more into the relationship than you are willing to put into it, they will gladly and dramatically show you the door.


They are hard workers.

Virgos are proud of their hard work ethic and this isn't just with their careers, but with their relationships, hobbies and in any other aspect of their life. You have to be willing to put 100 percent into all aspects of your life, especially in the relationship you have with them. You might have to get used to the fact that they tend to live their life under the rule of work before play.


They need space.

A Virgo man in love will need a balance of having a social life and having time to just be by themselves. They tend to be incredibly independent so while they love to be social, they also need to be able to do things on their own. If you are the needy type of person, then this relationship can be quite difficult to maintain as they can often feel smothered and begin to withdraw.


They can be incredibly hard on themselves.

Virgos are often the most self-critical sign there is. They set almost unachievable goals and standards for themselves and will need to gently remind that no one is perfect. You'll need to remind them of the great qualities they possess and provide them with support.


They are very passionate.

Virgos can be some of the most passionate and sexual people you will meet. They put a lot of importance on their sexuality and getting into a physical relationship with them will lead to plenty of excitement.


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